So.. The past few weeks have been pretty crazy at the Harclerode household. I don’t know about all of you but I am the type of person that once I conquer one thing, I move on to my next big project/ adventure. I need the excitement to keep me going! A boring life is definitely not for us Harclerodes!! For example.. When Rob and I first started talking about marriage; I said to him ” When we get engaged, I want to buy a house, get married within a year, and get 2 bengal cats.” And guess what, we did just that plus some! I’m not going to say it was an easy ride, there was a lot of blood, sweat, and tears! Rob and I put our minds to it, set a goal, and did exactly this. It will be a year we are married in August and we have already bought a condo, gutted our condo which we completely redid, bought 2 Bengal cats (George and Sonny), now sold our condo, moved back in with our parents, and we will be moving into a new house within the next few weeks. Also, in the midst of everything, we got engaged and I left my job a few weeks later. Not sure what was next for us, we took a leap of faith, and came out heads way above water! WOOAAHH tell me about it. A lot going on in a year!! I know, I know, leaving our jobs while planning a wedding probably wasn’t the smartest idea.. but we wouldn’t trade it for the world. This past year of our lives has been absolutely amazing.
One thing I could say is that when you set your mind towards a certain goal and actually work towards making it happen, it will. Nothing comes with laziness! And don’t get me wrong, we have had our lazy days/ weeks as well. We are not working zombies but we know what we want. If any of you have thoughts or ideas of doing things that seems almost impossible right now.. trust me its not! Every time Rob and I come forward with our next adventure, everyone says “wow, thats going to be great” and we know they are thinking.. “WHAT THE HECK, ARE YOU TWO NUTS!!!” But thats the fun of it, if you don’t try, you’ll never know. Shock people once in a while, its fun!
When I had these “crazy ideas” I wrote everything in a notebook, which no one but me knew about until now… Once in a while when I would get frustrated, I would open it up and start venting about how things weren’t working out to my “crazy, insane” plan. Lashing out and yelling about nonsense is definitely not the way to solve things. This notebook became a type of diary for me. And let me tell you, so far, everything that I wrote down on that paper has happened for us. Put it this way, if someone were to find this diary now, they would think I was a nut case HAHA. To someone reading, it would make no sense what so ever, but to me it made complete sense. Not everything in life has to make sense, But it has to happen for us to get stronger.
If any of you reading can take anything from our crazy, insane, not-boring life, take this; if you put positive thoughts into the universe, the universe will give you what you wish for. Have faith that everything will work out; “Everything Happens For A Reason!” And when you have those doubts, a bottle of wine will be your Best Friend!!!! CHEERS!!!!
Photo credits to the amazing- Nino Ignacio